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🔗 Attachment Style Test

Discover Your Attachment Style
⚡ Quick Start
Rate 20 statements about how you typically feel and act in close relationships — romantic partners, close friends, or family
Answer based on your general patterns across relationships, not just your current situation or a recent conflict
💡 This is a self-insight tool, not a clinical assessment. Attachment styles are patterns, not diagnoses or fixed labels — they can differ between relationships and change over time. Your answers stay in your browser.
HOW WELL DOES THIS DESCRIBE YOU?
"I find it hard to open up about my feelings."
Secure
Avoidant
Anxious
Fearful-Avoidant
How well does this describe you?
IN MY CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS...

Your Attachment Style

↑ lower anxiety  ·  higher anxiety ↓
Secure
Avoidant
(Dismissive)
Anxious
(Preoccupied)
Fearful-Avoidant
← lower avoidance  ·  higher avoidance →
Attachment Anxiety0%
Worry about rejection, abandonment, and how much others care.
Attachment Avoidance0%
Discomfort with closeness, dependence, and emotional openness.

Reading your result

The two scores show where your answers fall in each dimension's possible range — they are not percentiles or comparisons with other people, and the quadrant boundaries are simply the midpoints of those ranges. Positions near a boundary mean your pattern blends the neighboring styles.

Attachment styles describe learned patterns, not fixed traits: research finds they can differ from one relationship to another and shift over time — movement toward security ("earned security") is well documented, especially through stable relationships and self-understanding. If relationship distress is weighing on you, a therapist or counselor can help far beyond what any quiz can.

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📋 Detailed Instructions

The task: You'll rate 20 statements about how you typically feel and behave in close relationships on a five-point scale from Disagree Strongly to Agree Strongly. Think across your close relationships in general — romantic partners past and present, close friends, family — rather than only your current situation, and answer from your typical patterns rather than a recent good or bad week.

The model: Modern attachment research measures two independent dimensions rather than sorting people directly into boxes:

Your position on these two dimensions maps to the four classic styles: secure (lower on both), anxious/preoccupied (higher anxiety, lower avoidance), dismissive-avoidant (lower anxiety, higher avoidance), and fearful-avoidant (higher on both). The quadrant map on your results page shows exactly where your answers placed you, which is more informative than the label alone — especially near the boundaries.

Scoring: Each dimension is scored from ten statements (reverse-scored items handled automatically) and shown as a percentage of its possible range. The percentages are not population percentiles, and the style labels are descriptive patterns, not diagnoses.

This test is for informational and self-insight purposes only and is not a psychological evaluation.